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Engagement and Marriage: Trials and Moral Challenges of the Middle Ages

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Engagement and Marriage Trials and Moral Challenges of the Middle Ages Along with delayed marriage, another big problem we have is keeping engagements pending for a long time.  In some places, engagements have been seen for up to five years.  However, a period of two to three years has been considered normal.  However, this period between engagement and marriage is the most favorite period of Satan, in which he throws such a pleasant trap on both sides that in today's era, the number of survivors is very small.  Because this is the time when usually both the families deliberately provide time for the boy and the girl so that they can talk to each other and get to know each other.  When the fiancé calls, the mothers themselves provide solitude so that the girl can talk to her future husband without hesitation.  Without thinking that even after wearing the engagement ring, both of them are non-mahram for each other just like any stranger.  But then, unfo...

Understanding the Four Types of Intelligence IQ, EQ, SQ, and AQ

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   Understanding the Four Types of Intelligence IQ, EQ, SQ, and AQ         English Content     According to psychologists, there are four types of intelligence     1. Intelligence Quotient( Command)   This is a measure of your intellectual capacities. IQ is essential for working fine problems, learning information, and learning assignments. It reflects your capacity for logic and understanding.       2. Emotional Quotient( EQ)   EQ measures your capability to maintain harmonious connections with others. It involves being immediate, responsible, honest, regardful of boundaries, humble, genuine, and minding. A advanced EQ represents a strong character.       3. Social Quotient( SQ)   SQ is the capability to make and sustain a network of musketeers over a long period. People with high EQ and SQ frequently progress further in life than those with ...

Umar Farooq’s Final Moments A Lesson in Humility and Accountability

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  Umar Farooq’s Final Moments: A Lesson in Humility and Accountability When Umar Farooq (may Allah be pleased with him) was assassinated and wounded, he was given milk to treat his wounds. But the milk came out of his wound. The doctor said: "O Commander of the Faithful! Your days are limited, make a will."  Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) called his son Abdullah and said:  "Bring Hudhaifah bin Al-Yaman to me."  Hudhaifah (may Allah be pleased with him) was the companion to whom the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) had told the names of the hypocrites, and this secret was known only to Allah, the Messenger of Allah, and Hudhaifah.  When Hudhaifah (may Allah be pleased with him) arrived, Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him, despite the blood flowing,  "O Hudhaifah! I swear to you by Allah, did the Messenger of Allah name me among the hypocrites?"  Hudhaifah (may Allah be pleased with him) remained silent an...

Family Matters: The Importance of Presence in Marriage

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  Family Matters: The Importance of Presence in Marriage Never leave your wife alone and go out to work, and don't say that I am sending her enough money to live a good life. A woman doesn't marry for money and expenses. A woman needs you. A woman wants you to be with her, to support her when there is a problem. She needs someone to support her, to stand by her in difficult times. She needs someone to talk to, to laugh with, and with whom she feels safe. If you leave her alone for years, problems will arise. Many young men, when they go on a trip and leave their wives for a long time, when they return they feel something strange. They feel that their wives are a burden and are waiting for them to leave. Although they themselves are responsible for this.  The problem is that when a woman is left alone, she starts acting like the man of the house.  She does everything herself,  thinks, plans.  So when the husband returns after years and tries to play his role,...