Family Matters: The Importance of Presence in Marriage

 

Family Matters: The Importance of Presence in Marriage

Never leave your wife alone and go out to work, and don't say that I am sending her enough money to live a good life. A woman doesn't marry for money and expenses.

A woman needs you.

A woman wants

you to be with her,

to support her when there is a problem.

She needs someone

to support her,

to stand by her in difficult times.

She needs someone

to talk to,

to laugh with,

and with whom she feels safe.

If you leave her alone for years,

problems will arise.

Many young men, when they go on a trip

and leave their wives for a long time,

when they return

they feel something strange.

They feel that their wives are a burden

and are waiting for them to leave.

Although they themselves are responsible for this. 

The problem is that when a woman is left alone, she starts acting like the man of the house. 

She does everything herself, 

thinks, plans. 

So when the husband returns after years

and tries to play his role, 

she does not accept it. 

The husband gets angry

and tries to suppress, 

then the wife moves away from him. 

You have to understand that you have become just a guest who sends money. 

You have left her alone, 

so it is difficult for her to become the same delicate girl that you married. And it is not her fault. 

The second problem is your children, who do not show much love and affection towards you when you return from a trip. Because you have become "Santa Claus" for them, from "Baba", who only brings gifts and money. 

 Stay with your wife and children, 

and if it is necessary to travel, 

take them with you and always keep them close to you.

Moral:

A successful marriage is built on mutual love, support, and togetherness—not merely financial provision.